Sexual Abuse

	Find a safe environment - anywhere away from the attacker. Ask a trusted friend stay with you for moral support.
	Preserve evidence of the attack - don't bathe or brush your teeth. Write down all the details you can recall about the attack & the attacker.
	Get medical attention. Even with no physical injuries, it is important to determine the risks of STDs and pregnancy. To preserve forensic evidence, ask the hospital to conduct a rape kit exam.
	Report the rape to Dudley Police Department immediately. Our Rape Counselor can provide the information you'll need understand the process. For more information you can contact the DPD Rape Counselor via email.
	Remember it wasn't your fault.
	Recognize that healing from rape takes time. Give yourself the time you need.
	Know that it's never too late to call. Even if the attack happened years ago, the National Sexual Assault Hotline can still help. Many victims do not realize they need help until months or years later.

	Listen. Be there. Don't be judgmental.
	Encourage your friend to seriously consider reporting the rape to Dudley Police Department immediately. Our Rape Counselor can provide the information your friend will need to make this decision. . For more information you can contact the DPD Rape Counselor via email.
	Be patient. Remember, it will take your friend some time to deal with the crime.
	Let your friend know that professional help is available through the National Sexual Assault Hotline. Encourage him or her to call the hotline, but realize that only your friend can make the decision to get help.

	Don't leave your beverage unattended or accept a drink from an open container.
	When you go to a party, go with a group of friends. Arrive together, watch out for each other, and leave together.
	Be aware of your surroundings at all times.
	Don't allow yourself to be isolated with someone you don't know or trust.
	Think about the level of intimacy you want in a relationship, and clearly state your limits.
	Contact the Massachusetts Office for Victim Assistance through this link.

	Communicate, communicate, communicate.
	Speak to your children using the proper names for their body parts. Armed with information, children are better able to report abuse to you.
	Teach your children about safe and unsafe touches, as well as what is appropriate physical affection.
	Let your children know that respect for elders doesn't extend to an adult that has made your child uncomfortable. It's OK to say no and it's OK to leave the situation.
	Trust your own instincts. If your instincts tell you something is wrong, follow-up.
	For information about Internet safety, download A Parent's Guide to Internet Safety from the FBI. The materials are available in English & Spanish.